How to recognize people who don't love?

Some people love love. It is so beautiful to argue for love. That behaviour is included too in the tools for the bad guys. They show off publicly their ardent love but their words will follow no deeds.

How do I recognize who is who? Baddie or do-gooder? I know everyone has his or her method.

A simple exercise is to imagine the person concerned as in a daydream. Only in this daydream, the person to whom I am interested in has a life of its own. I wait until he or she starts acting unpredictable for me.

In my exercise I see a colleague from work. It takes a while before he moves. I'm curious what he will do. He plants a tree and enjoys the green. I get the impression of a very solid feeling of ownership. The tree has to pay the colleague with growth. He expects a reward for the work from the plant.

Now I let a sick dog, with a lame paw run alongside my colleague ...

My colleague sees the dog and goes into the house. When I confront him again with the dog, he gets a gun and shoots after the dog. Hm, seems this is not to be love. No matter. 2nd attempt

I let a crying child run around. My colleague gets to the child, takes the child and brings it to his wife. Clearly he has a soft sport for delegation .....

And so on. I can work out some scenarios in which the ability to love is tested. I develop a picture of the person which I could revise and correct later on, if the person starts to act ....

Plaster

gypsum crystal

Some people make a plaster cast of their face. However, how would a plaster cast from my soul look like?

Exercise:

I imagine my soul would be like me and I put my soul's head in plaster. Then I take the plaster cast and look into it. On the inside of the mask it seems as if something clings to it - negative emotions. I'm trying to understand the feelings. Afterwards I rinse the mask with clear water, which flows into the sea.

I am cleansed.

Search

A few years ago was a friend of mine with a few friends on the road, a camping tour. I did not know exactly where he intended to camp and considered a little exercise. I wondered whether I would be able to find a familar man without knowing his exact residence. I didn't know. Why not try?

I thought of my friend, visualized his image and tried to feel the image. Then, I got on my motorcycle and drove off. The weather was beautiful, the temperatures warm. The world is beautiful, I thought. I stopped the internal monologue and focused myself on an easy mood.

After roundabout two hours I arrived in the approximate area. A rural area where forest, grassland and arable dominated. Far and wide were no people to see, hear or smell (campfire). For a while I went around and a feeling of failure spread in me, because there was no sign of any living soul. My miserable mood was accompanied by the absence of any idea in which direction I should go. In this area I was able to drive through forest paths for weeks without meeting someone!

Whether it was impossible? Whether it was a difference to be enthusiastic about esoteric ways and to practise? It was clear to me that a successful exercise would only be successful with a carefree mood. I let go. It didn't matter whether I would succeed or not. I re-focused on my friend, felt the picture and drove off. Fifteen minutes later I intuitively turned right heading for a forest. A few minutes later I discovered cars and then discovered a clearing and tents. I had found my friend. We spent some time, we drank a little wine. The universe remained unchanged.

Be unconcerned and feel what you are looking for .........

Holosync

Today, an acquaintance told me that he meditates using Holosync. The Holosync method requires a one hour of sitting down and listening to music from a CD through headphones. The music contributes to the stimulation of different brain waves:

* Beta waves 14-30 Hz
* Alpha waves 7-14 Hz
* Theta waves 3,5-7 Hz
* Delta waves 1-3,5 Hz

The method is performable for anyone who has hearing, a CD player and CD's.

Now there are one million ways to open the eye for the inner light and maybe this method is one of them.

My colleague appears quite calm and balanced, he is resting in itself Whether it's the music?

Think Pink

Doe Lang, has written a wonderful book, that I appreciate very much. Charisma: Discover and Unleash Your Hidden Powers

Lang reports on page 114 of her book a technique of the Rosecrucians. 'Color breathing' for healing. This is about the power of thoughts, the power of visualization to change things, to heal and to rejuvenate.

If I want to help someone whose emotional problems had lead to illness, then I imagine a pink or rosy color surrounding the person. Recommended is the practice at a time when the person is asleep. A physical proximity to the person is not required.

First, I meditate and purify my own consciousness, then I visualize the person whom I want to help. I am sending a feeling of love to surround him using the appropriate color.

If the illness is not caused emotionally but physically, then I send use orange color.

Light meditations are meditations which I am personally very much fond of and I bet some of you have this technique already applied. Did it work well?

A Friend Tells

One day a man entered my life and said he loved me. He spoke of a home, children and heaven on earth.
I liked him, his eyes radiated and he had a smile which let my heart make a tiny hop. We became a love couple. Very quickly he wanted that we lived together, and his mind was strongly set on that goal. He drove that projects forward. I saw love in his doing.
When we lived together, he changed a lot. He expected of me, that I took over the female role. He spoke less with me, he smiled less with me and he told me where I failed in keeping the house. I was unhappy and wanted to question my heart, but I had no access. I felt inside cold dark and empty.

Then I turned to the technique of the candle.

I put a candle in front of me and ignited it. I closed my eyes imagining me the candle. Whenever the dark and the cold was overwhelming, I opened my eyes and took the image of the candle in me again. When I felt inside warm again and I could imagine the candle without effort with closed eyes, I saw another picture. My friend was in my old apartment. He tore down the house, destroyed the furniture and buried everything under a pile of earth. Thus I realised that I had to leave him, because in his life there was no place for me.

What Did Seneca's Wife Do to Seneca, When They Went To Sleep?

Seneca the Younger, (1 born, died 65), was a long time of his life board member of the senior management of the Rome AG. The employer had excessive disciplinary rights. Nowadays, the employers have these rights any more . His boss Neroe ordered him to commit suicide while Seneca was retired!

(I fear, that the politicians might start a debate that the imposition of the death penalty for employees is absolutely necessary in order to be competitive in the age of globalization - to be able to keep pace ;-)))

Seneca had, because of his duties, contact with many people in Rome and had though the opportunity to study thoroughly human nature in all thinkable situations. He became due to his fine observation skills a subtle connoisseur of people and has left us many works behind, that are still up to date.

When Seneca went to bed at night, then he had the habit, to go through the events of the day in his mind. He held himself accountable for every moment of his day. He assessed in which situations he should change his behavior.

Here he not only reviewed the events, he went through talks, considered his feelings.

Seneca benefited from this exercise with a carefree sleep, and impartiality in dealing with other people who helped him, his life to control.

What did Seneca's wife do? When the lights were extinguished, she fell silent, so that Seneca could perform his inner self review.

Who of you exercises a self-review, and what do you gain from it?

Scary signs at the sky, conclusion by analogy

"During the night I woke up because it was so bright inside the room. I got up and went outside. In the sky, I saw a bright shining image of a cross on fire. At that moment I knew that we must flee. "

It was my grandmother who told me that story. She was all the time of her life a very devout Christian. My grandmother fled before the Soviet army from West Prussia in the Second World War. I was not yet born, and can not judge the experience of my grandmother but my grandmother was convinced to witness an omen together with other villagers.

Analogies are a popular practical procedure in the esoteric. Whether someone reads the tea leaves, interprets the bird flight or draws randomly cards from the tarot deck, based on the observation the practitioner concludes on personal situations, which are not causally connected to the observed objects. In other words, you draw a conclusion by analogy.

time quality

Surely you know that there are times, where things are ripe for certain inventions. Similar conditions create similar behaviour, and so, for example, inventions are amde almost simultaneously by different people around the globe,who are not aquainted to each other. There is a time quality, favouring certain events, like the rush hour is a good basis for traffic congestion.

Thinking in analogies is a technique that helps us to notice time qualities, which we have not yet noticed. I own a perceptual filter. When I deal in this blog with esoteric, then, I have my attention focused on these issues, but changes in the financial markets I will miss, because my attention is bound elsewhere.

Thinking in analogies resolves the boundedness of attention. For a moment the routine habits of thinking stops and I am open new views, new perspectives. Now I can use a Tarot card to make me realise a conflict, make me feel what previously had been hidden to my view.

There is no secret or supernatural force at work when thinking in analogies leads us to insights. We open ourselves to what we know and what our perceptual filters blocked successfully until now.